The following is based on a comment received on one of our blog posts and a subsequent phone conversation with someone who reached out to CGR and asked for her family’s experience to be published.
Healthcare system offering MAID to cover up their negligence
Please use this for your evidence of what they have done to the victims and their families. I’m sure I’m not the only mother having to face this.
I am having a mental health problem with my son. He was a beautiful girl who had problems with school bullying. We live in a small community in northern Ontario.
I was a single working Mom, and I took a job as a truck driver to support my daughters. When I was a kid, my family owned an oil company, so truck driving was normal for me. I was also a tomboy, and driving paid enough to raise my kids, unlike working in a restaurant or a store. My daughter also seemed to be a tomboy. My kids didn’t want for anything.
When my daughter was 15, she declared she was a lesbian. I believed she was being resentful and testing me because I worked long-hour days. Later on, I just accepted she was a lesbian, though I didn’t believe it. Later on, as an adult, he cut off all his beautiful hair and started dressing like a man. I thought this was just a stage, maybe a tomboy worse than I was.
He moved down south (Ontario) and was still dating lesbians but dressed like a boy. He was down south for about six years. While he was there, he secretly started his change to become a man. He took the male hormones, which made him nasty and grouchy.
He was never mentally assessed to see if he was in his right mind to make that decision. He was never counselled on how much of a change he was doing to his life, and he was never schooled in a trade so he could support himself after.
They just changed him.
He was a girl going into a man’s world and knew nothing about boys stuff or men’s stuff to be able to support himself, much less a spouse. As a girl, he wasn’t strong either; he was feminine.
He was bullied in school out of jealousy. When he was in his mid-teens, she was beautiful, and people told her she could be a model. All the boys chased after her, and the girls were viciously bullying her out of jealousy.
So, now we have a feminine girl entering a man’s world for work. He did not know carpentry, mechanics or anything else. He wasn’t strong enough for a labour job either, so here’s where the domino effect of the downward spiral really took off.
Firstly, he can’t support himself, and he knows it, and that’s caused him deep depression. He started using drugs. Next, he can’t find a girlfriend or even a lesbian because girls don’t want a guy who was a girl, and the lesbians don’t want a guy even if he was a girl before. Next, he can’t support himself much less another person, so no girls are interested because who wants a guy you have to support. He will never own a house, a new car, new furniture or even vacations.
He hasn’t been in any form of a relationship since 2015. Nobody to plan with, no family of his own because that was all surgically removed, unable to support himself, no spouse to share emotionally or physically.
Plain and simple, he has nothing.
He has a nurse practitioner who just keeps doling out pills without sending him for help. He does drugs and mixes them with the prescriptions she gives him, and now he’s paranoid; he believes that everybody is looking and judging his crotch.
In public, if anybody smiles at him, he believes they are laughing at him. He’s doing enough drugs that he hears voices now and believes angels talk to him. He is now getting violent, and his nurse will not talk to me because of patient confidentiality, yet she isn’t looking deeply into his case. She just keeps giving him pills without realizing he is a good manipulator. She gives him the quit-smoking pills that come with the warning that you can hallucinate voices (Wellbutrin). Lately, with all the mental issues, he said he’s on the waiting list for MAID and is committing suicide.
He isn’t in a sane place to make that choice because he is a victim with nowhere to turn, and he wants it over, but he’s mentally not right. Last night, he sent me a message in Messenger while he was in a bad state of mind and probably on drugs. For the last 8 months, he’s been resentful of what he’s become versus what my daughter became. She is a single mom raising her son. She finished school and went to university and got her Bachelor of Arts; then went to college and took a law clerk course. She has a pretty good job, so she can raise her son. Naturally, I visit her and my only grandchild because I want to be a part of his life as he grows up.
My “now” son takes it as I prefer my daughter and her son over him. He is now resentful of that, and resentful of things I achieved working all those years. I believe that he thinks because he “isn’t right”, we should support him because he made bad choices and he’s now 47 years old with nobody or nothing.
He is now at the point where he spreads bad things about us, and the other night, he made threats while he was doped up. He has also wished the whole family dead.
Tonight, I have no choice but to call the police because my daughter believes his words to be threats. He also wished to see my grandson severely beaten up and warned me about driving my car. I have no choice, and I’m not sure what will happen if we call the police, and hopefully they keep him in for mental health. But maybe he will get out and either carry through with his threats, or commit suicide. Or they will allow him to have MAID.
So here’s where I’m at: take a chance he won’t follow through with his threats?? Or try to protect my daughter and grandson, and he either commits suicide or goes through with MAID… I am now in a catch-22.
The medical community and government did this to him through negligence. Now that the government and healthcare system realize their screw up of negligence, they offer MAID to cover it up because if these people are dead, they have nobody to be accountable to.
They did this to my beautiful little girl and then permitted her to do the change without investigating, counselling and giving him training so he could support himself after. They did this to her/him, and they should be accountable to him and to me, putting me in this situation. Because of their negligence, they don’t just hurt that person, they also make the family suffer when it’s botched like this. I had two babies, and now I might lose one.
Please use this for your evidence of what they have done to the victims and their families. I’m sure I’m not the only mother having to face this.
Image credit: Your Canadian Government at https://www.canada.ca/en/department-justice/news/2021/03/new-medical-assistance-in-dying-legislation-becomes-law.html
